Talking About Stillborn Babies – 2015 Milwaukee Pediatrics Conference


The 2015 Milwaukee Pediatrics Conference discussed a very sensitive topic – stillborn babies.

There are cases when unexpected things happen. Parents who waited for nine months to see their baby, but the infant dies before it he or she born. It could be that the baby dies after the birth which is so devastating for them. Parents are sad and mourning that they have only a few sources of comfort, and even to say goodbye to their baby.

There is a device called CuddleCot, a kind of refrigerated baby bed that will preserve the body of the dead newborn baby for days. It will give an opportunity for parents to have more time with the baby. To hold, love, take pictures, and can even take home with them to have a memory to last for a lifetime.

According to the study 2016 study in Michigan of 377 bereaved women if their babies were died soon after giving birth suffers from depression and can experience symptoms of post-traumatic stress than the mother who had an alive baby.

In a study from Michigan, directed by Dr. Katherine J. Gold, 18 women whose baby died after born was not able to see their baby, 36 did not get the chance to hold their baby, and 34 were told that they could not keep them.

There are donations from Chis and Emily Fricker of Pingree who used the CuddleCot and help them to relieve them of grief. The Fricker’s decided to donate it to provide other parents the gift of time to spend with their babies.

CuddleCot was invented in Britain, where ten babies are stillborn every day. It is an 8-pound device that is a crib or bassinet with refrigeration under its mattress. Because of cold, it preserves deceased baby and can keep them look good as possible. Babies that are held in CuddleCot look like they were only sleeping.

It provide parents to create more memories of their love baby, they will have more time to accept and grief with their loss and gain closure to take the situation easily. A pretty piece of equipment to provide an opportunity to cherish, hold and bond with their lost baby. Fricker’s believe that hospitals can afford this device and must be in every hospital to help the grieving parents heal.

Ways Of Keeping Your Unborn Baby Healthy



Birth abnormalities can affect a newborn’s appearance, brain, and bodily functions, or both. Per statistics, one in 33 babies is conceived with a congenital disability. Some of these are obvious, like cleft palate or cleft lip. Others need to be diagnosed and tested for more confirmation and clarity. For instance, heart defects. The parents and the family are sometimes the last to know about these defects because they are not educated about prenatal care.

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Benefits Of Attending 2015 Indianapolis Pediatric Convention For Pediatricians

The 2015 Indianapolis Pediatric Convention was one of the major conferences for pediatricians from all over the country during that year, and I happened to receive an invitation to that. In the beginning, I was genuinely hesitant to go, even though many of my colleagues would be attending too. My thought was that it was unnecessary, that I got everything covered already. However, the convention showed me that going to events similar to this one offers more benefits than I know about.

These are the perks of attending pediatric conferences now:

1. Improved Understanding Of Medical Regulations

When you are in an event that focuses on your field of expertise, it is impossible not to hear about the rules that govern you. That is a good thing because regulations can change over time even in the medical world. If you remain cooped up in your clinic and you don’t read the news, you may be unaware of them and disobey the law later.



2. Better Networking Possibilities

A convention is the best place for socializing and connecting with people who are working in the same area as you. You can strike a conversation over coffee or dinner with anyone. You may even be able to speak with the members of the panel during the discussion period. The opportunities to build your network, therefore, are limitless.

3. A Way Out Of Burnout

Lastly, going to a conference allows you to stay away from your workplace for at least a couple of days and unwind with peers. The purpose of such events does not only cover the presentation of new medical approaches and regulations, after all. The organizers prepare activities as well that may be unrelated to the field but can reduce the level of stress that every pediatrician in the crowd is probably carrying.



Look for the next pediatric convention that will take place in your country soon to achieve the benefits mentioned above. Good luck!

When Your Kids Ask About Suicide




It is natural for parents and other adult family members to protect the little ones from the dark actualities about life. That is why it is troubling for them to talk about suicide to kids. But what if they ask about it? Would you spare them the knowledge about a reality that has gotten so common these days? It would seem that while we are protecting them, we are ripping away their chances of healing as well.


Many parents (including me, honestly) are hesitant to talk about a suicide in the family to their children perhaps because of embarrassment, fear, or confusion. However, when children hear adults discussing this sensitive issue, without a doubt they will form their own version of what happened, which leads to more dangerous outcomes in the long run. It is important, therefore, that information about death by suicide or other tragic causes should be conveyed to them in a manner that is suitable for their age.


Simplifying The Explanations


To start off, it would be inappropriate to use the phrase ‘committed suicide’ as it may sound like a crime was done and it was successful (giving a negative implication that it can be done even if it is wrong). You can use the phrase ‘died by suicide’ instead.


For the younger children, you may need to provide a clearer description, such as:


“Dying means that the body isn’t working any longer, and nothing can fix it. Some people are just so hurt and so sad that they think the only way to get rid of their sadness is for their body to stop working. Some people also die this way because they have a sickness that comes from their brain. When the brain is sick, they may feel very hopeless.”



Encouraging Questions

Do not forbid your children to ask questions. You will thank yourself in the end for letting them speak their mind. Answer them as simply as you can, with an encouraging note, like:


“I know you must be confused or maybe wondering what or why it happened. I may not be able to let you understand fully, but you can always come to me and tell me how you feel. We can talk about it more. Or you can ask other adults about this.”


Be as truthful as possible without giving out the horrid specifics. If they ask how it happened, you can tell them that ‘he took pills that were not good for his body. That’s why he was hurt and his body didn’t work anymore.”


Supporting Them With Your Time and Presence


Sometimes, children blame themselves for the death of their loved one, and it is crucial that you help them get rid of this disturbing thought. Remind them that there are many reasons why people die from suicide, but none of these reasons involve them. Also, do not attempt to take away their sadness but instead listen to them and allow them to share how they really feel. This way they will overcome the process of grieving appropriately.


Helping Them Learn Through Modeling




Children mimic the ways of adults. Grieve healthily by showing sadness appropriately, which is through crying and sharing your emotions with others, not through violent reactions. Talk to them and let them see how you feel so that they too will realize that showing one’s emotions is a very effective way of healing. Show them how to acknowledge grief. Let them know that there are nourishing ways to recover, that they are not alone, and that they are loved.


5 Ways To Promote Mental Wellness In Kids

The things that children bond over tend to change with time. During pre-school, everything is about toy trucks or doll houses. When they move past the age of nine or ten, that is when they become aware of the opposite sex and gush over crushes and famous celebrities. Once they reach adolescence, you can expect these not-so-little kids to mostly talk about sports, prom, and clubs.

A current trend that worries most adults, though, is the early introduction of some kids to self-harming, addiction, and suicide. Many of them cause damage to themselves because they do not know how to deal with the stress that comes with studying, being a son or daughter, or maintaining friendships. The others try cutting into their flesh merely because their classmates do the same, and it is their way of fitting in.




How can we rely on these children to make the world a greater place when they are already psychologically unstable at a young age?

If you wish to save your kids from this scary progression of events, you should promote mental wellness at home as early as today.


Be Open With Your Children

Regardless of how tight your schedule is at work, you should never let a day pass without seeing or speaking to your kids. You want them to know what you are doing with your life, and vice versa. If they have problems, they should be able to run to you for help or advice. Otherwise, they might try to resolve their issues using harmful methods, e.g., drug abuse, sex, etc.



Nurture The Kids

The children who feel neglected by their parents and have had to depend on themselves early want to escape the reality by getting high on illegal substance or self-harming. The ones who receive proper nutrition and support from their family, however, are less likely to have mental instability. They are aware of how great life is and will not want to do something that can ruin that.


Explain Situations

Some kids cause trouble as well because they have deep questions that the adults refuse to answer. For instance, “Why are mommy and daddy not together?’ “Why does my friend have a new schoolbag, but I have to use a hand-me-down?” Stop assuming that they are too young to understand things like divorce and poverty since children these days are smarter than you think. If only you explain your family’s situation to them, they may know how to act better.


Acknowledge Behavioral Changes

When you notice that your kid’s behavior is taking an ugly turn, you should not take it as a mere phase that all children experience. A cheerful child does not become moody or develop a habit of talking back for no reason. There is typically an incident that caused the change, and you have to acknowledge that before their behavioral transformation worsens.


Go Out As A Family

Finally, make sure to get together as a family at least once a week. You can watch movies on Netflix at home or hang out at amusement parks during the weekends. It matters for children to see that their parents have time to be with them. Should they need emotional support in the future, they won’t have to look elsewhere for people who can offer it.


Do not wait for an irreversible incident to occur in your kids’ lives before you invest in their psychological well-being. Promote mental wellness at home now. Good luck!



Watch Out! Emotions Gone Haywire Are Common During Pregnancy




Magazine photos and Internet images often picture pregnant women smiling, rosy-cheeked, and glowing as they pat their bellies with such TLC it’s palpable even to viewers outside the screen. These imageries often lead us to believe pregnancy is something borne out of fairy tales with happy endings.  In reality, it’s not. In fact, emotions going out of control are commonplace during gestation. When you’re expecting, you’re undoubtedly in for one emotional rollercoaster ride.  Continue reading

Healthy Baby Inside The Womb: 4 Things To Keep In Mind




“I went through a miscarriage two years ago, and now that I am pregnant, I want to make sure my unborn baby’s fate now wouldn’t end up in another one. I want to make sure my baby thrives inside my womb. How can I make sure of that?”

This article tackles four crucial things to keep in mind to ensure your baby’s health as he or she grows inside you.

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